I almost didn’t want to post anything today – I know you all are probably sick of reading my book reviews, but I have been reading so much lately! I think I’m using books as a bit of an escape from life, stress, grieving, etc… so I’m just going to go with it.
The latest read from Blanche’s Book Club is “Hate List” by Jennifer Brown. Before I get into this ANY further, here is the official description from Amazon.com:
Five months ago, Valerie Leftman’s boyfriend, Nick, opened fire on their school cafeteria. Shot trying to stop him, Valerie inadvertently saved the life of a classmate, but was implicated in the shootings because of the list she helped create. A list of people and things she and Nick hated. The list he used to pick his targets.
Now, after a summer of seclusion, Val is forced to confront her guilt as she returns to school to complete her senior year. Haunted by the memory of the boyfriend she still loves and navigating rocky relationships with her family, former friends and the girl whose life she saved, Val must come to grips with the tragedy that took place and her role in it, in order to make amends and move on with her life.
I was reading this book thinking, “Wow, this is so timely…” and then I saw it was published in 2010 and realized probably any book written about a mass shooting has been considered “timely” since Columbine.
Don’t worry, I’m not going to get into politics here, but it did break my heart just a little to realize that, yes, school shootings are so common now that they’re becoming topics in YA novels. Amirite?
I took note of some of my favorite lines from the book:
- “Bruter’s name was the first of hundreds on the now infamous ‘Hate List’, a red spiral notebook confiscated from Nick Levil’s home just hours after the shooting.”
- “And then there was the noise. It wasn’t so much a noise in my ears as it was in my brain. It sounded like the whole world was shutting down on me.”
- “I wanted her to smile, and I wondered if she smiled when she got home and held her kids or if she just came home and sat back in her recliner with a vodka and drank until she couldn’t hear gunshots.”
- “After your classmates get blown away pretty much everything else in the world – even your father bailing on your family – seems pretty trivial.”
This book did a good job of showing the other side of mass shootings – what happens to the people that knew and loved the person with the gun? It’s not something that is usually covered in the media, but is addressed locally; a funeral often has to be held for the accused as well.
The book also addresses mental health and how we (as humans) digest the things people say to us, such as, were those actual signs? Jokes? Could I have done something to prevent this from happening?
And finally, this story seemed so real; the characters, the school, the high school struggle – I couldn’t help but be completely submerged into this world. A truly fantastic read.
I’m recommending this one to YA novel lovers, and to anyone who enjoys human interest stories.
The next book Blanche’s Book Club will be reading is “There’s Someone Inside Your House” by Stephanie Perkins.
In other news, I DO have other ideas for blog posts in my mind, but like I said, I’ve simply been trying to just take it easy on myself and do anything that doesn’t feel awful. I had tickets to go to a hockey game last night, but when it came time to get into my car and go, I couldn’t do it. I was worried it would remind me too much of my dad and I’d just end up sitting there crying.
I have started going through some of the things willed to me by my dad and am documenting it on my Instagram account @OrangeJulius7 if you’d like to follow along – it’s part of a bigger project I will eventually reveal.
To say last week was rough would be a gross understatement. As I sit down to write this, I’m not quite sure I can put all of my feelings into neat little rows of words that will convey my beliefs on these issues clearly, but I’m going to give it one hell of a try.
I woke up nearly two hours before my alarm on Tuesday, and couldn’t go back to sleep, so I started scrolling through my Twitter feed. I saw the #BlackLivesMatter hashtag had gained popularity and I knew it: another innocent black man had lost his life to the bullet of a police officer.
And sure enough, that was the case for Alton Sterling in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. We’ve all heard his story by now, I’m sure. Soon, most of us will be able to sweep him under the rug just as we’ve done before; just like we did for Trayvon Martin, Michael Brown, Dontre Hamilton, Eric Garner, John Crawford III, Ezell Ford, Dante Parker, Tanisha Anderson, Akai Gurley, Tamir Rice, Rumain Brisbon, Jerame Reid, Tony Robinson, Phillip White, Eric Harris, Walter Scott, and Freddie Gray, among several others.
As white people, we’re granted the ability to forget about incidents such as these, because we don’t understand the struggle blacks have continued to go through. Introducing white privilege: White privilege is the systemic construct that grants unearned advantages to people based solely on skin color. This definition is significant in that often people see how race puts people of color at a disadvantage, but seldom see the corollary of white skin advantage.
For more information on seeing and understanding white privilege, check out “White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack” by Peggy McIntosh.
But the families of these fallen black men and women don’t have that luxury. They won’t be able to forget their loved ones, or the brutal ways in which they died.
I was truly heartbroken on Tuesday, and when I saw the nasty comments on Facebook, I just got plain pissed. And I expressed it; trying to remain calm at first, but the more ignorance I received, the more pissed I got. One woman said, “Comply, don’t die” in regards to Mr. Sterling’s death. Excuse me? That’s a sick and twisted way of saying that his death was his fault.
She explained to me that he was resisting arrest, so…Comply, don’t die. Okay, so he struggled, sure. But he was also tazed and had two police officers on top of him, with his gun in his pocket. What was he going to do? Run? No. Shoot someone? No.
How many white males have resisted arrest in this country and lived to tell the story? And no, I don’t have the numbers. Speaking of numbers, I also get aggravated when people keep saying, “Wait for all the facts before you make an opinion!”
Umm, A. How about you fuck off, B. We will NEVER have all of the facts, and C. This is America, so we are allowed to have opinions whenever we please. Or is that a right reserved for the white bigots, too? Please.
You want the facts? I’ll give you some facts:
- Police killed at least 102 unarmed black people in 2015, nearly twice each week.
- Nearly 1 in 3 black people killed by police in 2015 were identified as unarmed, though the actual number is likely higher due to underreporting.
- 37% of unarmed people killed by police were black in 2015 despite black people being only 13% of the U.S. population.
- Unarmed black people were killed at 5x the rate of unarmed whites in 2015.
- Only 10 of the 102 cases in 2015 where an unarmed black person was killed by police resulted in officer(s) being charged with a crime, and only 2 of these deaths (Matthew Ajibade and Eric Harris) resulted in convictions of officers involved. Only 1 of 2 officers convicted for their involvement in Matthew Ajibade’s death received jail time. He was sentenced to 1 year in jail and allowed to serve this time exclusively on weekends. Deputy Bates, who killed Eric Harris, will be sentenced May 31.
The facts from listed above were found here, where you can also find many stories of the innocent victims who were killed by police.
Deputy Bates was sentenced to four years in prison for second-degree manslaughter after killing an unarmed black male (source).
Lets get back to the facts:
- The best available data suggests that if police officers are being watched more closely, that hasn’t reduced the frequency with which they kill people. In fact, they might be killing people more often. And the people dying still are disproportionately black.
- Blacks continue to make up about 30 percent of the people dying from police violence, though they make up 13 percent of the nation’s population (source for both).
- Young black men were nine times more likely than other Americans to be killed by police officers in 2015, according to the findings of a Guardian study that recorded a final tally of 1,134 deaths at the hands of law enforcement officers this year.
- Overall in 2015, black people were killed at twice the rate of white, Hispanic and native Americans. About 25% of the African Americans killed were unarmed, compared with 17% of white people (source).
So when you tell me that police actually kill more white people than black, it’s not true, and even if it were true, does that make it okay? Is that why people become police officers? So they can kill innocent people for fun? Because I thought police officers were here to make us feel safe.
The thing that frustrates me the most is that our world is set up for black people to fail from before they were even born. It’s more difficult for blacks to receive an education (let alone a quality one), more difficult for them to own property or gain credit, nearly impossible for them to have access to fresh food, nutrition, and healthcare, and when they end up in the streets, they are more likely to be either killed or jailed, which puts them into a system they can never get out of.
Don’t believe me? In 2012, The Times-Picayune in New Orleans published an 8-part series on Louisiana’s largely private prison system and how the state actually profits from putting people in jail. Nearly 2/3 of people in Louisiana prisons are nonviolent (in Louisiana, you can get 10 years in prison for writing bad checks).
- Louisiana’s incarceration rate is nearly five times Iran’s, 13 times China’s, and 20 times Germany’s.
- Among black men in New Orleans, 1/14 is behind bars, 1/7 is in prison, on parole or on probation.
- Louisiana vies with Mississippi for the worst schools, the most poverty, and the highest infant mortality.
- The money spent on prisons means less money spent on institutions that could help these individuals, starting the sad cycle – Louisiana spends $663 million each year on inmates.
- The ratio of black men to white men in New Orleans prison? 12:1
And please, spare me from your argument of saying that some black people are more wealthy and successful than white people. Yes some, and their names are Oprah and Beyoncé, and they are rare occurrences; exceptions to the rule. Sit down.
It makes my blood boil; it’s something most of us can’t understand because we are afforded all of our rights and have access to pretty much everything in this world. Most of the time, we could actually do whatever we wanted and still not get killed by a police officer.
Tuesday evening, the only person I knew to call was my mom. I can yell and vent to her without judgment, and scream profanities out of my window, only hoping they reach the police station a few blocks from my apartment.
And yes, I know that not every police officer is “bad” and police officers are people, too, and they make mistakes. But why is it that they expect to be held in the highest regard when they do good, but when they do “bad”, they want sympathy. I think not.
So, when I hung up the phone on Tuesday night, I saw the news of the second shooting – another black male, murdered, because he had a busted tail light. You know how many times my tail lights have been out? Many. And I’m still breathing.
Because of a tail light, Philando Castile is dead. And although the video was difficult to watch, I am thankful for his fiancée, Diamond Reynolds, who live-streamed the video on Facebook. I think we all need to follow her lead and film the police officers, no matter what, even if they will likely go unpunished.
And that’s just it. It doesn’t matter if one person, or one police officer (or 20 or 200 officers) have racial prejudice – a preconceived judgment or opinion against an individual based on their race; formed without just grounds or without sufficient knowledge. Anyone can be prejudice. They can carry positive or negative stereotypes of others based on racial characteristics. People of any race can direct hostility against an individual of another race. These attitudes or acts are often mistakenly defined as racism leading people to fear that racism cannot be solved. Racial prejudice alone is not racism; it cannot determine where people of color live, work, shop, play worship, get health care, or get their education. Those things are determined by institutions. When racial prejudice has institutional backing, it becomes racism.
So, when an institution, such as the police tasks, allow their employees to hunt innocent black people and kill them without punishment, that is institutional racism. Perhaps it’s our justice system or our government that’s allowing these crimes to go unpunished. That, too, is institutional racism.
In America, we give the power to run our society to institutions. They may be either private or public, but all are interconnected through their common task of helping the society to function. Each and every business and industry in our nation, large and small, is an institution, whether factory, office, or retail store. Within the communication industry, each newspaper, radio, and TV station, magazine and computer network is an institution. Every school and university, each sports team and franchise, every art gallery, dance studio, and a thousand more groups are institutions… Theoretically, each institution represents and collectively acts in the name of those whom it claims as its members, its owners, its clientele, or its citizens. It is institutions that have the power to grant or deny access; to determine where people live, work, play, shop, worship, get health care or education.
Racial prejudice + Institutional Power = Institutional Racism.
Institutional racism is the systemic distribution of resources, power, and opportunity in our society to the benefit of people who are white and the exclusion of people of races of color. Present-day racism was built on a long history of racially distributed resources and ideas that shape our view of ourselves and others. It is a hierarchical system that comes with a broad range of policies and institutions that keep it in place. Racism although legally banned in the mid 20th Century, still operates in American Institutions.
For more facts and information on institutional racism, check out “Understanding and Dismantling Racism: The Twenty-First Century Challenge to White America” by Joseph Barndt.
…So yeah, it makes it a little more difficult for me when I keep seeing this happening, and often, the result is the same.
I tried to stay away from the news, but on Thursday night, I really couldn’t. I started watching all of the marches and rallies across the country, and I was actually getting excited: maybe this was it! Maybe people were finally getting fed up and change is on its way.
And then, Dallas happened.
I’ll say it now, even though it’s ridiculous that we have to state it, of course I think it’s terrible and undeserved that those police officers were unfairly targeted and killed. I do not think any innocent person should be killed.
But I’ll also say this: Black lives still matter.
And that is not a message of hate. It’s my point that the problem is still out there and it still needs to change. What I don’t appreciate is hearing the Dallas Chief of Police dividing the country, yet again, by saying that the shooter was with BLM, and that he was targeting white police.
We will never know if that is what the sniper actually said (I’d like to note the Police Chief said in an interview on Sunday that parts of the transcript will be released), because he was killed – and rightfully so, although I’d like to point out that several white murderers have walked away uninjured from their crimes; talking to you, Dylan Roof, who, after murdering 9 people worshipping in a black church, he was treated to a cheeseburger at Burger King by police (read it here).
And I’d also like to say that a few people tried to tell me that Alton Sterling was not considered an “innocent” man because he had past charges. Umm, yeah, and he paid for those charges… we do not carry our debts, dumbass. She said, “Do you know he was caught selling Xtasy?!”
No, I didn’t, and I also don’t care. I don’t even care if he was selling crack cocaine to children on Tuesday morning when the police showed up. He still should have been arrested and given a trial, not murdered.
Dylan Roof? He had prior charges on drugs and trespassing. But he’ll walk.
I also do not appreciate Texas Lt. Gov. Dan Patrick saying this: “All those protesters last night, they ran the other way, expecting the men and women in blue to turn around and protect them. What hypocrites. I understand the First Amendment. I understand freedom of speech and I defend it. It is in our Constitution and is in our soul, but you can’t go out on social media and mainstream media and everywhere else and say that the police are racist or the police are hateful or the police are killers.”
Really? I have never been part of a mass shooting, but I’d venture to say it’s human nature to run the opposite way of a bullet. And not to be a bitch, but it’s kind of what the police officers are being paid for – to stop crime… I mean, am I on pills? Are civilians now supposed to fight crime? Where the fuck is Batman?
I’d say those protestors were not, in any way, wishing the policemen harm; if they did then it wouldn’t have been a peaceful protest. Patrick later walked back his remark, because he is an idiot (source).
There was also a lot of whining coming from the Dallas police task, because they do not get enough “thank yous”. Uhh, is that the issue? Because a lot of great people do great things without getting thank yous. How many teachers have gotten a thanks? Getting a thank you is not why you perform a job – you do it because you’re passionate about it.
But maybe I’m the problem. So, I’d like to thank the Austin police who helped me when my car was broken into. Oh wait, they never showed up. So, I’ll thank them for calling me when they said they would. Oh wait, they never did. But thaaaaaaaanks, love you, kisses, byyeeeeeee.
Enough is enough. So, how will you support the change? By hiding behind your computer and telling me I’m racist for saying Black Lives Matter? Or will you become a CASA volunteer, because children without fathers (including those murdered by police) are more than 8 times more likely to receive maltreatment overall, over 10 times more likely to suffer from abuse and more than 6 times more likely to be neglected, which would put them into state’s custody (source).
Will you join the cause to stop gun violence? How about participating in the National Police Accountability Project to combat police misconduct? What about contacting your elected officials about gun control? Here’s a helpful guide on how to do it.
“This is a time for action. What is needed is a strategy for change, a tactical program that will bring the Negro into the mainstream of American life as quickly as possible… Without recognizing this we will end up with solutions that don’t solve, answers that don’t answer, and explanations that don’t explain… Darkness cannot put out darkness. Only light can do that.” – Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. “Where Do We Go From Here”